This is not a usual book. It is highly unusual, and written
in a very unusual way. I gave this book five stars because I think it is
important and succeeds in a creative, raw, authentic, and real way. I think
that any person who actually reads the book will be moved. If you don’t have
some kind of emotional reaction to this book go back and reread it you missed
the point all together! The author’s style is very emotional, and she writes
using lots of anger and crude (but appropriately crude) language in response to
what has happened to her. I would encourage any thoughtful person to not
dismiss this book because of ignorant (they haven’t read the book) comments
others have made. This is a book you the reader have to commit to for you not
due to any hype.
In her style of writing, Rose often addresses
the reader as “you”; it is a deeply personal book, written directly
to the reader, and intended to rouse the reader to action, to encourage them to
be brave in their own life. It is a vibrant call to action for both women and
men. You will find yourself sad, enraged and examining society and Hollywood
norms and society in general.
Rose typically was not listened to, not taken
seriously, not respected. For those of us who are female, this may be very
familiar to us. She describes how our culture programs us to be pleasant,
polite, docile, easily manipulated, and vulnerable to predators.
She had a very difficult young life. She was
raised in Italy in the Children of God cult. After describing what she went
through–some incredibly horrible things–she compares this religious cult to
the “cult of Hollywood”. It’s easy to see the parallels. It causes
the reader to thing about how we support Hollywood in unhelpful ways and urges
us to be supportive of roles and movies who portray women in ways that are not
exploitative. I agree with one reviewer who said that she found
“unexpected depth” to this book. I related to so much of what the
author wrote and also to the blunt and graphic way she said it.
If rape is not a trigger for you, I urge you to give this book a chance.
It will not only teach you to stand up taller it will show you that the
glamorous life of Hollywood is rather dark and oppressive. I am saddened that
so many men in power feel the need to be “Monsters” because they are in
positions to get away with it. Truth be told I applaud Rose for standing up for
the things she feels she deserves. Hands
down one of the most emotional reads I have ever read. The honesty and raw emotion
in these pages are worth every minute you spend